I love this interview series, Kerri! And I am so encouraged by examples of faithful women who are loving their children and families but also working cooperatively with their spouses to keep these important parts of their life and vocation going.
I think the point about cost of living is really underrated and a large factor in our decision to relocate — not only the actual cost of a place, but the social norms for families. We were just discussing how our area specifically is really a “pay to play” sort of community. You have to pay to have friends because everyone is so busy. But, as Nadya states, sometimes you just stay stay stay and pray pray pray and then the avenue God provides may not be the one you envisioned!
Thanks Annelise! I’m so glad to hear that you’re encouraged- I really hope more women (and men) might be inspired to discern their own choices well.
I’ve never encountered that phrase, “pay to play” but gosh it makes sense. I know a lot of mums in London felt that way- there was no natural community (only nannies at the park), so they had to pay for “baby and me” classes. It’s so sad.
I’d love to hear more about what your family discovers as you pursue this move!
I love this interview series, Kerri! And I am so encouraged by examples of faithful women who are loving their children and families but also working cooperatively with their spouses to keep these important parts of their life and vocation going.
I think the point about cost of living is really underrated and a large factor in our decision to relocate — not only the actual cost of a place, but the social norms for families. We were just discussing how our area specifically is really a “pay to play” sort of community. You have to pay to have friends because everyone is so busy. But, as Nadya states, sometimes you just stay stay stay and pray pray pray and then the avenue God provides may not be the one you envisioned!
Thanks Annelise! I’m so glad to hear that you’re encouraged- I really hope more women (and men) might be inspired to discern their own choices well.
I’ve never encountered that phrase, “pay to play” but gosh it makes sense. I know a lot of mums in London felt that way- there was no natural community (only nannies at the park), so they had to pay for “baby and me” classes. It’s so sad.
I’d love to hear more about what your family discovers as you pursue this move!